My g/f has cheated on me with four men, but we want to stay together.?
My girlfriend has been cheating on me since last September. It was never more than a time or two, with several different guys. She said the reason was she thought I didn’t want to be with her, so instead of talking she was fucking. We have talked about it, and she regrets it terribly. She doesn’t want to lose me. At this moment she is “dating” another guy. The only reason she is still letting him think they’re dating is because he hasn’t done anything wrong and she doesn’t want to hurt him. She’s made it abundantly clear that she wants to stay with me, and for some strange and stupid reason I want to give her a chance. I’m not perfect, we’ve had our fights, mostly because of me. But I always showed her my love and caring, I’ve never hit her or abused her. I know all the sayings, “Once a cheater, always a cheater..” etc, but what if she actually does change. Should I even consider giving a chance? We both want to fix things and stay together? Has anyone ever had this work?
It’s not about her cheating or whatever.
You now have an unremovable fear implanted in your mind that she can’t be faithful. This is more powerful than anything because it won’t matter if she does or not if you’re always suspicious…
She sounds very insecure as do you (understandably). If you value your health and are fairly young, I would seriously recommend moving on. There’s nothing but trouble with a girl who mananged to get with four guys before you even officially broke up. Think about it.
Franklin
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